my life
All the things
Again, so sorry for not posting! I have lots of updating for you…so let it begin!
My family had Spring Break last week, and let me tell you, it was so fun to get to hang out with them! They spent the night in Lehi so my sister could run in a track meet, and that meant Randy and I got to go to Thanksgiving Pointe with them! We always have way too much fun there.
Donut Funeral to commemorate my last day at KSL. I’ll still be there on-call, but not going in every weekend is going to be so sad!
Say hello to my new office! I’m going to be a Digital Marketing Coordinator for Ken Garff corporate! This means I’ll be doing lots of website design, programming, and updating, social media marketing, and some video production work. I’m so excited, and overwhelmed, and terrified, and happy!
It’s not Easter without some eggs, right? Randy and I had too much fun dying eggs last weekend.

Knowing He’s The One
Randy and I are going to get married when we are both 21. Randy will have been home from his mission for almost 6 months when we get married. Randy will have an absurd amount of school left when we get married.
Some people think we’re too young. Some people think it’s too soon. Some people think we’re crazy, stupid, immature, naive. Not ready. Not sure.
People quote the divorce rate, statistics, rules about how long after a mission is appropriate to start thinking about marriage, personal stories about their best friend’s cousin’s uncle’s co-worker who made a bad choice regarding marriage.
So here’s a quick thought about why I am doing this. Getting married. At such a young age, to someone just home from their mission.
Because he’s the one.
And how do I know he’s the one? I’ve thought about this a lot. I could list off the reasons, from his patient and loving heart, to his taste in music, to his consistency in buying me chocolate, not to mention how good looking he is! (see picture above).
But the most important reason that Randy’s the one, is because HE is the one.
Let me explain.
God is the one in charge here. God knows my heart. He knows Randy’s heart. He knows my flaws, and Randy’s flaws. He knows what we will fight about, what we will struggle with, and how we will fit together, and build each other up.
I know Randy’s the one because God’s the one that has the plan. And I know Randy’s the one, because I’m listening, and following, and trying to obey.
And as long as Randy and I both keep following Heavenly Father, we will stay THE ONE for each other.
We didn’t make this decision lightly. It’s something I’ve personally been praying about for 3 and a half years now.
And I’m more sure about this decision than any other decision I’ve made.
So I’m going to be less judgmental about people getting engaged fast, young, to someone in particular, all of it. They have their own relationship with Heavenly Father – and I need to respect that.
Now to quote my good friend Cory Matthews:
Engagements
Ok I’ve posted them all over Instagram and Facebook… so why not here, right?
Here’s a few of my favorites!
What I Heard In Church Today That Broke My Heart

I heard something at Church today, that made me a little sad. It’s something I hear said far, far, far too often. And I’d like to get it corrected as soon as possible.
Today, a wife of one of our Bishopbric members was teaching Marriage Prep. Randy and I went together, all ready to learn.
The first thing she said when she got up was, “I’m a little intimidated to teach. I’ve heard many of you teach, and there are so many returned missionaries here who know how to teach. I never went on a mission, I just got married and had babies. So hopefully I can still teach you something today.”
Those are honestly, her near exact words.
My heart broke.
It left me, and I’m sure several other people in that room who hadn’t served missions, with the impression that if we didn’t serve, we weren’t adequate teachers. And because this amazing woman hadn’t served, she wasn’t a qualified teacher.
This attitude isn’t right.
As members of the Church, as lovers of this Gospel, we are qualified to study, learn, and teach.
It doesn’t matter if you’re a brand new convert, or a seasoned scriptorian.
Everyone has something to offer in this Church.
Whether you served a mission, served as a nursery leader, served as a Relief Society President, served as a visiting teacher, served as a devoted wife, loving father, helpful daughter or son.
We ALL have something to give.
I want my daughters to know they will be amazing leaders, teachers, wives, and mothers, no matter what they decide about serving a mission.
I want my sons to know that their wife is a righteous woman, a great partner for him, and a daughter of God with an incredible mission, whether or not she wore a name-tag.
I want everyone reading this to know it doesn’t matter what they’ve done or haven’t done, it doesn’t matter if they left the church, if they don’t know if they believe. There is a place for you in this Gospel.
And I want everyone to understand that the path that Heavenly Father directed them to is a good one, the right one. And it doesn’t make them anything less, or more, than anybody else.
Happy Sunday everyone!
Engagement preview and documentary time
And. Move over Dateline and 20/20. We’re coming. Ok not really, but still. Working on a documentary about suicide prevention in Utah for our capstone project has been absolutely incredible. I am loving every interview, all the time spent logging tape, meeting amazing people and sharing their stories.
Stopped by the mall the other day, and THIS is what I see. It’s made of LEGOS. If that’s not cool, I don’t know what is.
And now, it was this amazing mother of mine’s birthday this week! She’s the cutest and I am so lucky to have her as my mom. She’s so caring, kind, and truly amazing. I love you mom!
Happy Saturday everyone!
1, 2, 3…
1. Engagement pictures round 1 last night. Round 2 is next week week. Bit of a fiasco with my hair and makeup, and getting there on time, but Elisha Braithwaite is pure fun to work with. Can’t wait to see how the first session turned out!
Where does the time go?
Hello!
Where have I been? I feel like I blogged yesterday – turns out I didn’t. I always used to get so annoyed when my fav bloggers stopped posting once they got engaged. Now I know why. Not enough time, not enough motivation!
So here’s the catch up.
Unfortunately, I also forget to take pictures now. Not that I was good at it before. But still.
I got SO lucky last weekend and got to go to the Imagine Dragons concert for work. #ilovemyjob
It was incredible and absolutely everything I’d dreamed of. Plus being smashed in there with 300 other people instead of 3,000 other people was amazing. It smashed me right up to the front for a great seat. Er. Place to stand.
While I have a minute
Please excuse me for being tragically behind on blogging.
It’s been a real treat to be alive lately. Overwhelming and wonderful and scary and a million other words, all at once.
Here’s a few simple updates for you.
Valentine’s day was fully of love love love. Working, new watches, my favorite restaurant, guitar serenading, movie, and lots of gush.
Happy Birthday Randy
21 years ago today, my life completely changed. And I had no idea.
21 years ago, the best thing to ever happen to me, was born.
Randy, thank you for being the sweetest, kindest, funniest, smartest, most Christ-like person I have ever met.
Thank you for giving me years of Chili’s dates, guitar singing, backstage kisses, notes in class, shopping trips, dances I’ll always remember, endless movie nights, Fro-Yo runs, letters across the ocean, singing in the car, hundreds of pictures, and a love to last a lifetime.
Anybody who knows Randy knows how absolutely wonderful he is. He has a heart that is pure gold.
Randy, thanks for letting me love you. Happy birthday my wonderful fiance!
And happy Wednesday everyone!



































