Not Settling
I had an experience over the past few days that made me realize a few things, things I wanted to share.
Girls, this is especially for you.
You don’t have to settle. And you may think that all guys are a certain way and you have to put up with them. That’s not the case at all. Yes, you will have to compromise and learn to love their flaws and things like that, but you do not have to settle. You don’t have to be with someone who doesn’t treat you right. Ever.
I have the most amazing guy friends in the whole world who are constant reminders to me that I can be with someone who respects me, wants to do things for me, wants to listen to me, wants to cheer me up, and wants to be there for me. So thanks Spencer and Dylan and Trev and Jack and Dillon and Cole and Lincoln and Kurtis and Gabe and Cade and Michael and especially you Randy Low. And all you other guys that I didn’t mention. Thank you for being the reminder that there are good guys out there.
So ladies, don’t you dare waste a second with someone who doesn’t treat you the way you deserve. You don’t have to be with a guy who makes you feel bad about yourself, and more importantly you SHOULDN’T be with a guy who makes you feel like that. Guys are always saying “Nice guys finish last” and if we show them that the nice guys are what we really want, they’ll all have to start being nice, right?

Wait for the right guy, and don’t settle for anything less.
Happy Wednesday everyone!
News April 17, 2013
New York Times: Background Checks in Peril as Reid Backs Gun Curbs
Nevada Senator Harry Reid, the majority Senate leader, said today that he would vote for a ban on assault weapons, breaking his long ties to the NRA. He said that there needs to be a balance between the right to have a weapon, and the right for every child in America to be safe. This changes the gun debate and the outcome is now very unsure.
Click here for the whole story.
New York Times: Secret Service Cites Suspicious Material in Letter to Obama
A suspicious envelope addressed to President Obama was intercepted by the secret service yesterday. The envelope which is now being tested for suspicious substances, looked similar to a letter addressed to a Republican Senator that tested positive for ricin.
Click here to read the full story.
Safe
I know there have been so many social media posts and tweets about Boston and everything, I just wanted to add my sympathies to those who were there and those who had family who were there. I can’t even imagine what could possibly motivate someone to want to hurt people like that. It’s beyond anything I can comprehend. Today I am grateful for knowing that the Church is true, that families are forever, that we have a loving Heavenly Father who will make everything alright in the end.
On another note, yesterday I had the highest blog readership EVER. By a lot. So thank you for keeping up with this blog and supporting this crazy goal of mine. I appreciate it:)
On another note, yesterday Sarah and I watched Safe Haven. It was SO scary. But so good. It was kind of perfect to watch it after the Boston Marathon bombings, because in it one of the guys is crazy and wants to hurt people, but there are so many other good people that make life as good as possible. I really needed that reminder; that while there are so many bad people in this world who do things I can’t and won’t understand, there are so many good people who do things out of kindness and love and sympathy. There are good people and good thoughts, not everything is bad and ugly.
I am so glad for the safety and security I feel, and I can only hope that others will be able to feel that safety and security too.
Happy Tuesday everyone.
News April 16, 2013. Updates on Boston
New York Times: No Suspects Yet; Among the Dead Is an 8-Year-Old Boy
Final Boston Update for Today
The White House reaction is that the bombs in Boston were an act of terror. Two people were killed, and more than 80 were injured, with at least a dozen with amputated limbs. The sites are closed, and planes are being redirected to not be allowed to fly over the area.
Read the full story here.
I am incredibly saddened by these events, and my heart and prayers go to those who were involved, as well as their families.
UPDATE
Boston Marathon bombs kill 2, hurt more than 20
Breaking News
Two explosions heard at the Boston Marathon near the finish line. There are reports of injuries.
Read more: http://usnews.nbcnews.com/_news/2013/04/15/17764747-witnesses-2-explosions-heard-near-finish-line-of-boston-marathon?lite
Look for more info as it comes in!
Quotables
So lots of thoughts going around in this little brain today.
Basically I’m confused….
But I’m pretty sure I know what I’m supposed to do…
But I’m still confused…
Which is confusing.
Too many things to try to explain right now so I’m just going to post some of my favorite quotes and hope that they help me connect the dots. And hopefully you like them:)





